Often, when we first see someone and observe them from far away, we see how strong and sturdy that individual is. We see them without any problem, it's as if everything goes well for them. So we somewhat have this impression, assumption that, that person is someone who handles their life well.
But little by little, as we get to know them, flaws after flaws of them begin emerging, one after another.
At that point, we'll start to see them as a totally different person than before. Imperfect, flawed, fragile.
But that is not really all that bad. The truth is, everyone is like that. From a distance far enough, everyone seems perfect; like a clean, shiny, glossy surface. Only upon closer look do we see their small cracks, scratches, glued broken pieces, dent, imperfections. Nobody is without flaws.
The only question is, whether we still choose to embrace them, as we embrace ourselves.
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